SIGNS, SYMPTOMS, SOLUTIONS for CHILD ABUSE & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Jun
7

SIGNS, SYMPTOMS, SOLUTIONS for CHILD ABUSE & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE


SIGNS & SYMPTOMS & SOLUTIONS for CHILD ABUSE & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE WORKSHOP FOLLOWUP

Dear Friends,

Thank you so much for joining us at our latest workshop on June 7th, Signs, Symptoms & Solutions for Child Abuse and Domestic Violence

If you were not able to attend, we’re sorry that we missed you. It was an impactful, engaging program and our speakers provided a wealth of information on how we can mitigate the maltreatment that is all too common in our communities.

Representative Tram Nguyen spoke about the fragility of safety for many immigrants who are subject to an added layer of coercive control which escalates the problem of abuse and family violence for these vulnerable populations. 

Detective Miguel Quinones from the Lowell Police Department emphasized that when we see an act of violence or abuse, against any child or adult, speak up and report it. The familiar saying of “See something, say something” is something we can all implement in our daily lives. Suejeidi Hernandez, Victim Advocate, spoke about the Family Services Unit.

Stacie LeBlanc of the Up Institute discussed shifting our mindsets vis-à-vis domestic/family violence from “why doesn’t she leave” to “why is he hitting her?” Children are particularly vulnerable as they witness violence in the family and often are directly subjected to abuse. This dramatically increases their risk for abuse as they become teens and adults. Surprising to many of us is learning that the recipient or victim of abuse is frequently the one who then abuses the children. 

Family violence and child abuse is a multi-layered complex problem. It will take all of us to reverse and eradicate the egregious injustice that impacts millions of children and families. At the end of the morning, we asked what you can do to be a part of the solution. Here are the responses:

  • Sign up on the No Hit Zone site.

  • Learn better responses when viewing hitting in public - such as, “Can I help you? Is everything alright?”

  • Have a NHZ house in Africa

  • Promote NHZs to minority communities

  • Ensure that staff is educated on NHZs and promote on social media

  • Bring this information to my kid's daycare

  • Work with education providers

  • Sign up to put Lowell on the NHZ map - anyone can sign up to be a NHZ! You do not have to be a nonprofit or business

  • Format the books in another language (several copies of Painless Parenting were distributed for free. You can download it and print it directly from the No Hit Zone site.) 

  • Get certified in CAST(Child Advocacy Studies) Zero Abuse

  • Share hotline information (Alternative House)

  • See something, say something.

If you want to send us your ideas or any workshop feedback, please email me at mahoney.maureen@gmail.com and it will be added!

Thank you again to all of our generous supporters, we appreciate your support immensely. All donations made to the Mahoney Family Fund go directly to the free, educational programs we do throughout the year. If you want to specify a use for your donation, such as supplying Painless Parenting books or any other educational material, just let us know and we will be happy to accommodate your request. 

Stay well and have a wonderful summer.

Best wishes from the Mahoney Family Fund.

Maureeen Mahoney

Committee Members:

Helen Blaschke

Sylves Boumil

Barbara Dunsford

Zoe Dzineku

Cecilia Gutietrez

Maureen Mahoney

Karen Myatt

Jen Myers

Maura Norton

Madeline Snow Typadis

The Greater Lawrence Community Action Council (GLCAC) is our fiscal partner,

 a 501(C)3 organization.

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Follow-up Zoom with Stacie LeBlanc
Nov
9

Follow-up Zoom with Stacie LeBlanc

A one month post-event online gathering for all who attended the October workshop and also for new folks who have never attended our events. Stacie LeBlanc presented on the need to Re-Think Discipline. 


Seventy-five percent of all child abuse cases start with adults aiming to change a child’s behavior. This is why the MFF has focused on making discipline a positive, teaching experience. As our speakers have highlighted, decades of research could not conclude that there is even ONE positive outcome for hitting/spanking children. Conversely, there are dozens of consequences of harsh physical discipline that last a lifetime.  Please check out
No Hit Zones; The Up Institute; Stop Spanking.

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No Hit Zones: A Discussion
Oct
13

No Hit Zones: A Discussion

No Hit Zones: A Discussion will be held on Friday, October 13th from 9:30–11:00am at the First United Baptist Church, 99 Church Street, Lowell, MA. Many of you have expressed interest in having your organization or you individually become a NHZ (No Hit Zone) affiliate - now is your chance!  Stacie LeBlanc (theupinstitute.com) will answer all your questions about NHZs and you’ll get help on implementing the NHZ policy in your office, business or even in your own home.  You will also be privy to the latest research on the effects and outcomes of NHZs being implemented. Light refreshments will be served. 

Please RSVP HERE.


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Rethinking Discipline: A Workshop for Families
Oct
12

Rethinking Discipline: A Workshop for Families

As we move into the fall and a new school year, it is easy to become overwhelmed and stressed out. How prepared are you to deal with your kids and family in a way that creates harmony and happiness?  


On Thursday, October 12th, 6:00-7:30pm, The Mahoney Family Fund and the Lowell Public Schools’ Family Leadership Institute are offering Rethinking Discipline: A Workshop for Families (flyer below) at the Lowell High School's Cyrus Irish Auditorium. The workshop is designed for parents, grandparents, teachers or caregivers of young children or teens as well as for those who work with them. International speaker and child advocate Stacie LeBlanc (theupinstitute.com) will talk with us about the urgent need to rethink discipline. She will present evidence-based research on child and teen development and health and the direct correlation to maltreatment. This promises to be an enlightening and informative evening! Free childcare, light refreshments and translation will be available. Please register HERE.


Feeling overwhelmed can affect the way we deal with people, especially kids. When negative emotions run high, our parenting and teaching skills suffer and when we are stressed, our kids are stressed. Their actions can trigger us and our attempts to discipline can be harsh and lead to an even more stressful environment. 


Compelling research in medicine and social sciences shows evidence that “the old fashion way of discipline” is harmful and ineffective. Decades of findings show no positive outcome from hitting, spanking, yelling or threatening children. In fact, we now have conclusive data that a child’s brain experiences impaired development as a result of being hit. Harsh disciplinary actions do not correct a child’s behavior. Yet, more than half of all adults in the U.S. spank their children - often it is a knee-jerk reaction when kids are acting out.  


What can adults do differently? The first thing we can do is understand the consequences of how we discipline (and there are many); secondly, we need to rethink our personal views of discipline; thirdly, we need to use alternatives to hitting, spanking, yelling and threatening.

REthink discipline

REdirect our kids’ attention and ours

RElax in a less stressful and more nurturing environment. 

REexamine if what we’re doing is working

REap the benefits of positive discipline

REward positive behavior

REgain composure and balance

This workshop is one of many events celebrating learning in the 2023 Lowell Learning Festival

(Rethinking Discipline: A Workshop for Families flyer below)


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Mar
31

Reducing Child Abuse by Rethinking Discipline

Mahoney Family Fund presents:

Reducing Child Abuse by Rethinking Discipline

Friday, March 31, 2023

Complimentary Breakfast 8:00am, Program 8:30-10:00am

Long Meadow Golf Club, 165 Havilah Street, Lowell, MA 01852

RSVP here.

Being a parent is a job that doesn't come with a handbook. As wonderful as it can be, it can also be difficult and frustrating at times. Many parents and caregivers, drawing from their own childhood experiences or feeling there are no other alternatives, resort to physical means for disciplining children. This often well-meaning but abusive behavior can have lifelong negative consequences for a child physically, mentally, and emotionally. There are better options. 

The Mahoney Family Fund proudly presents a free breakfast & educational event highlighting groundbreaking, evidence-based research with front line alternatives for reducing child abuse. Please join us for this in-person, 90-minute program with our panel of experts: 

  • Stacie LeBlanc, JD, MEd, co-founder of The Up Institute and executive committee member of the National Initiative to End Corporal Punishment. Stacie is Chair of the National No Hit Zone Committee. She began her career as a child abuse prosecutor in Jefferson Parish more than 30 years ago and became the chief of the Felony Child Abuse Division, began the Family Violence Program and helped open Child Advocacy Centers in rural and urban parishes.

  • Shahenda Aly, M.D., a pediatric hospitalist at Lowell General Hospital and an assistant professor of pediatrics at Tufts University. She created the RISE project to help families of special needs children navigate their way through an array of challenges. Originally from Egypt, Dr. Aly offers a global perspective and a passion for ending child abuse. 

  • Shirley Pimentel from the Boys and Girls Club of Greater Lowell will discuss how current behavioral issues with the children in their care often stem from maltreatment in the home and how they work with the kids to break the cycle of violence. She has dedicated 20 years to youth development where she has worked with non-profit organizations that focus on a wide array of youth programming in residential homes, youth centers, schools, and community-based organizations.

You will not want to miss this dynamic, ground-breaking event! We encourage audience participation and we welcome all of your questions and comments. RSVP.

Please consider supporting the Mahoney Family Fund's educational outreach to reduce child abuse by making a donation.

Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs) result when parents and adults in a child’s life maintain nurturing, loving relationships and when discipline is truly a means to teach and not threaten. Each speaker will discuss the significant consequences of negative discipline as well as positive alternatives that have lasting benefits to the child. 

For more information, contact Maureen Mahoney at maureen@mahoneyfamilyfund.com.

Many thanks to our generous sponsors for the support of this event!

Brad Dee, Farmer & Dee Funeral Services

Andrea & Donald Morgan Trust

Maura Sullivan Norton

"...in memory of Edward D Sullivan MD. Just a nod to his earlier work on the subject in the 60s with your Dad."

[Maureen Mahoney adds the following context: "...this is in reference to the panel my father formed in the 60s to address "the battered child syndrome".  Maura's father, Dr. Sullivan, was on the panel.]

Enterprise Bank

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Oct
12

SPARE the CHILD Part Three: SPANKING to POSITIVE PARENTING

Register for this ZOOM webinar scheduled for Wednesday, October 12 from Noon to 1:00pm ET.

The Mahoney Family Fund is honored to present one of the nation’s most respected experts on the prevention of child abuse, Stacie LeBlanc. Her research and evidence-based data about the harms of hitting children, for punishment, is real and overwhelming. This interactive ZOOM webinar will address:

  • the need and critical importance of ending corporal punishment

  • will highlight the successful implementation of a NO-HIT Zone at the Coalition for a Better Acre (CBA) in Lowell, MA.

Pam LaRoque, CBA Youth Development Program Coordinator, will be on hand to answer questions about educational programs in place at CBA and specific challenges they face.

Stacie LeBlanc, JD, MEd is the President of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children (APSAC), the co-founder of The UP Institute and a CAST instructor at Tulane University. She founded the Audrey Hepburn (CARE) Center and is the former Executive Director of the New Orleans Children's Advocacy Center. Stacie served ten years as a felony child abuse prosecutor, has designed multiple prevention programs including Teens, Sex, and the Law; Dear Parents and Painless Parenting. She chairs the National No Hit Zone Committee. More about Atty. LeBlanc: CV, NoHitZones

The important information in this webinar is presented at no cost to participants.


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Jul
20

SPARE the CHILD Part Two: From SPANKING to POSITIVE PARENTING

The Mahoney Family Fund is honored to present one of the nation’s most respected experts on the prevention of child abuse, Stacie LeBlanc. Her research and evidence-based data about the harms of hitting children, for punishment, is real and overwhelming. This interactive webinar will address:

  • The need and critical importance for ending spanking and other forms of physical punishment. 

  • Interventions and strategies that can be implemented to reduce the use of physical punishment. Examples of successful strategies include “No Hit Zones”.

Stacie LeBlanc, JD, MEd is the president of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children (APSAC), the co-founder of The UP Institute and a CAST instructor at Tulane University.  She founded the Audrey Hepburn (CARE) Center and is the former Executive Director of the New Orleans Children's Advocacy Center. Stacie served ten years as a felony child abuse prosecutor, has designed multiple prevention programs including Teens, Sex, and the Law; Dear Parents      and Painless Parenting.      She chairs the National No Hit Zone Committee. More about Atty. LeBlanc: CV, NoHitZones

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Apr
13

Spare The Child: From Spanking to Positive Parenting

The Mahoney Family Fund is honored to present two of the nation’s most respected experts on the prevention of child abuse. In this one-hour webinar, Catherine Taylor and Stacie LeBlanc will present evidence-based research on the ill effects of corporal punishment. They will guide discussion and provide tools for constructive discipline.

The evidence about the harms of hitting children for punishment is overwhelming, and the time to change these norms, at a societal level, is now. Progress will require collective efforts by adults and leaders in our national community.

This webinar will address:

1) The need for ending corporal punishment (CP); child health professionals’ attitudes about CP; key roles that professionals play in ending CP.

2) Clear developmental and age-appropriate alternatives to hitting/spanking; de-escalation strategies to prevent the hitting of children; interventions that can be implemented at various “spectrum of prevention” levels to reduce use of CP with emphasis on those that can be implemented broadly to shift population norms; examples of successful norms change; “No Hit Zones”.

Catherine Taylor, PhD, LCSW, MPH, is a Professor in the Boston College School of Social Work. Her research agenda is focused on the primary prevention of violence, especially violence that impacts children. More about Dr. Taylor: faculty, publications

Stacie S. LeBlanc, JD, MEd, is the Executive Director of the New Orleans Children’s Advocacy Center (NOCAC) and Audrey Hepburn CARE Center, non-profit programs of Children’s Hospital New Orleans that provide forensic exams for over 1,500 children annually. More about Atty. LeBlanc: CV, UpInstitute, NoHitZones

This important information is presented at no cost to participants. Join us.

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Oct
14

The Power of Empathy: Reduce Stress and Build Better Adult/Child Relationships

Stress is alarmingly pervasive in daily life. We all need tools to deal with tension in healthy and productive ways. In this webinar, with Keynote Speaker Koa Goode, we’ll explore the lasting benefits of learning to walk a while in someone else’s shoes, of exercising compassion in our interactions with others. This is especially important with family members, including our children.  It’s easy to forget that kids have a wide range of feelings and stressors, just like adults.  Understanding developmental milestones from infants to teens helps us as parents, teachers and caregivers to create nurturing relationships with children.


Koa C. Goode is a Social Worker who has focused her 20-year career on supporting children and families. In 2020, Koa was recognized by the National Exchange Club for her commitment to child abuse prevention and for her work with families.  She is currently a Case Manager Supervisor at Greater Lawrence Community Action Council (GLCAC).

 

The mission of the Mahoney Family Fund is to mitigate abuse and violence within families and against children.  The seminar is presented by the Mahoney Family Fund in partnership with the GLCAC and Lowell City of Learning. 


The Greater Lawrence Community Action Council is the Mahoney Family Fund’s fiscal sponsor.


The Mahoney Family Fund raises both awareness and money for frontline organizations dealing with youth in crisis, trauma and violence. Past recipients include: United Teen Equality Center; Alternative House; Center for Hope and Healing; the Michael B. Christensen Center; Strongwater Farm; Tewksbury Police Department Domestic Violence Unit and Notre Dame Academy.


Register now at https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYkcO-rqDwuE9NC-Yp5exs1RjYYDD3abiq0


Please share this information with family, friends and colleagues.


For information please contact Mahoney Family Fund founder Maureen Mahoney at mahoney.maureen@gmail.com

Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dr.HughRuthandJohnMahoney for weekly updates. 

This webinar is part of the Lowell Learning Festival https://lowellcityoflearning.org/

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Kids Count in Our Communities: The Pandemic Hits Home
Apr
7

Kids Count in Our Communities: The Pandemic Hits Home

Click here for information on the panelists.

This free webinar aims to mitigate the traumatic impact of the pandemic on kids and families by offering paths to insight and immediate tools and resources. Expert panelists will address the ongoing stressors that kids and parents are experiencing during the COVID-19 pandemic. Each will offer resources and answers to pressing questions about preventing difficult events at home. Parents, families, caregivers, educators and community are invited to attend to find support and reassurance.

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